Carrie Writes ...
Being an Advocate
A big part of being disabled is learning to be your own advocate. I learned quickly in life that you are the only one who can make things happen for your self.
I am always surprised how some do people not have the skills or drive to stand up for them selves. From a young age my parents taught me to stand up for my self and be independent.
The definition of advocacy is to fight for rights given by the laws of our country. An advocate has many characteristics such as patience, strong beliefs and knowledge of issues. They are persistent in finding and showing solutions.
There are many ways to advocate like writing letters and lobbying for new bills. One way I advocate is writing about disability issues through my columns hoping my readers use the information in their lives. I have advocated for myself from school to work situations.
The first step is to identify your needs and figure out how to accommodate them. The second step is to meet with the appropriate person to develop a plan of action. I always have all my ideas and solutions ready to present my case. As always, stand firm but be willing to compromise on any reasonable suggestions, that are made.
I always get asked why I advocate so much. Besides the fact I love a good debate, I feel each person has the right to live to their fullest potentional despite their disabilities. Every day I hope I am paving the road to make life easier for another person with disabilities.
Carrie Tynan.
Please email me if you have any comments, suggestions, or if you would like to meet online for a chat:
Email: carriewrites@yahoo.com
